Monday, May 26, 2008
Seefirstdependsanything

Dear Boys

There are many activities mostly during the school holidays for us (AT12) to spend more time together. Do make an effort to avail yourself to these activities because we hardly have time together during school term.

I understand that it's only human that we want to be in the company of the friends we are comfortable with. So if one don't come, the other also seefirstdepends. Can I challenge all of us to step out of our comfort zone and even use every opportunity presented to us to know our other brothers - those we interact less with -more!

I also understand that we have only 24 hours but alot of things to do. Thus we lavish our time only on "important things" such as schoolwork. Let us be good stewarts of time because spending time with God and God's family is definitely no less significant.

Heb 10:25 Let us not give up meeting together as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

However there are times when we really don't want to or can't commit ourselves for a particular activity. It could also be more time is needed to check our schedule before deciding. Let us take the responsibility to inform others about it promptly!

Let our yes be yes and our no be no. Otherwise things are just left hanging and unable to proceed on. Seefirstdependsanything puts in people a sense of uncertainty. It needs to be dealt with now! If not, everybody will be waiting for everybody else and nobody would want to take initiative because the uncertainty makes people feel vulnerable and instills in them the fear of rejection.

etok..